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“I am not a monster”: An affective–discursive analysis of men's perspectives on their engagement in violence against women

2022; SAGE Publishing; Volume: 33; Issue: 1 Linguagem: Inglês

10.1177/09593535221105341

1461-7161

Katrín Ólafsdóttir, Annadís Greta Rúdólfsdóttir,

Sexual Assault and Victimization Studies

This paper aims to explore how men perform masculinities in their relationships with women and how their behaviour is enabled and/or maintained in modern society. An affective–discursive approach was adopted to analyse six in-depth interviews with men who identified as perpetrators of violence in intimate relationships. The analysis portrays how heteronormative discourses on masculinity frame participants’ understanding of the violence they had committed. However, the most pervasive reference point in the participants’ accounts was the construct of the monster. The participants’ understanding of their violence had an intersectional angle as the monster figured differently in their stories, depending on their social positioning. The middle-class participants believed that the monster essentialised and dehumanised them and called for new ways to talk about violence. The working-class participants experienced their violence as masculinity out of control, referring to past trauma and the intensity of their love for their partners, while dodging accountability for their actions. The findings underline the need for discourses on knowledge that encourage men to take responsibility for their actions without being dehumanised.